Something oddly comforting

2021.10.16 10:32 Mysterious_Tennis470 Something oddly comforting

I finally understand what it means when people say “don’t bother, people never change.” For years I have been trying to talk with my parents about the shit they put me through and for some reason I expect them to be like, “we fucked up, our bad.” But what happens is a huge emotional explosion, gaslighting and feeling emotionally drained from reliving the trauma I have went through as a child.
I have been “gray rocking” (great strategy I learned from this subreddit and it is good when you are forced to live under the same roof as manipulative assholes) basically my whole family for the past month and it has done wonders for my mental health.
If I ever feel the urge to talk with my parents or share anything with them, I just remind myself that people don’t change if they don’t want to, but I have the power to take back control of my future and to unlearn all the bs my family has feed me. For some reason I feel reassured and the anger I feel calms down a little when I remind myself of that.
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2021.10.16 10:32 BasilPrimary1519 I got this 10$ coupon from Epic store. Since it's no use for me can I give it to someone else?

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2021.10.16 10:32 Banime2019 Tsukimi Sumire. oc art from withacrown.

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2021.10.16 10:32 SlimeLanguage19 this new "rap" music is terrible

I am a 40-year-old woman who grew up in the golden age of rap like tupac, biggie, and eminem I have no experience with new rap music. My son however is a big fan of this "mumble rap" and was recently playing an artist called "playboy carti" in the car. the first song he played was called stop breathing (obviously mocking the victims of covid) the beat of this song is terrible, if you could even call it a beat, it's abrasive and just loud, wheres the guitar, the piano, the drums?? but I digress. the lyrics are even worse they're all about rape, drugs, and gang violence, and these vile words are screamed by a thug. now the next song is called Teen X which as you can probably tell the song is named after underage sex but not only that, it gets worse. all the lyrics, if you can understand them, are about selling and taking drugs like purple drank, marijuana, and cocaine all rapped by a crack junkie. And what makes it even more vile is that the instrument as terrible and aggressive as the first song sounds like an ice cream truck which is to make little children who hear this song think that taking drugs is like eating ice cream. after these two abominations of songs which can barely be called music I turned off that crap and played Eminem for the rest of the car ride. I cannot believe this filth is allowed on the radio and streaming services and that labels sign these so-called rappers
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2021.10.16 10:32 LoganGNU Awesome John Blanche piece from the Battle For Armageddon booklet in the WH40k 2nd ed boxset

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2021.10.16 10:32 dietsock anyone trade nado for golem executioner freeze gob barrel barb barrelhunter lightning prince?

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2021.10.16 10:32 lemonlimoo Why I don’t believe Kim is trying to become a lawyer to “help people”

I genuinely do not believe she is being motivated by a passion to help people and get wrongly convicted people out of jail.
If her motivation was to help people, she could do it utilising the mass of money, resources, connections she has. By now, she better than anyone would know that money makes things happen regardless of roadblocks. Such as holidaying during a pandemic when the rest of the world is stuck inside.
Instead of taking ages trying to pass the baby bar and speak about her passion, she could already be helping people.
It is incredibly unrealistic and a total ego-driven dream to think that anytime soon she will be a kick-ass lawyer with the ability to get people out of jail on her own merit as a lawyer. It’s like when a child has a grandiose dream of becoming a astronaut or a princess with no idea about reality and just saying it because it sounds cool in their mind.
No matter how much money she throws at it, she can’t just become a highly skilled lawyer capable of doing that. Instead, she could be helping people in hundreds of other ways.
It seriously bothers me that people tend to go on about how “amazing” it is that she wants to do this, when all she has done thus far is give lip service about this ~ passion ~ and have her assistant or whatever post about her studying, and then be quiet when she fails the baby bar.
How long have we heard her speak about it now? How many people could she have helped in the same time using a tiny fraction of her wealth?
Why do people play into this PR stunt and give her good publicity?
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2021.10.16 10:32 Myaaaatt_C Any button huh?

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2021.10.16 10:32 jacksfilmsforehead44 Late night vibes hehe...

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2021.10.16 10:32 littlejart What are your favorite assets to use for a large American city? Also bonus points for small town American asset favorites too!

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2021.10.16 10:32 inicblowex1984 Goblin Slayer: Side Story Year One colored manga by AI on Mangaeffect

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2021.10.16 10:32 Valkazarr The hardship of environmentalism is trying to distinguish fact from left-wing propaganda… But it’s not that hard.

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2021.10.16 10:32 YeShlugFan91 Fabia MK3 Radio

Anyone else experience crashing of their radio systems in their MK3 or other models? When I plug my phone into it, CarPlay sometimes doesn’t load and the system doesn’t recognise the phone and says it was disconnected, before completely freezing and crashing and then rebooting until it works? Is this something worth taking into the garage to look at?
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2021.10.16 10:32 lioness-2208 [WDYWT] Saturday outfit

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2021.10.16 10:32 Ivanhunterjo1991 God damn it, Barb!

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2021.10.16 10:32 Stiles1776 Can’t find any blue

Where the hell is the blue herb
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2021.10.16 10:32 TheNootNoot420 Any Games that are Worth Playing on the RP2?

Just got mine yesterday and I just need some recommendations on which games preform decently on the RP2 and are actually worth playing.
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2021.10.16 10:32 Music_Library365 Roa - No Regrets [No Copyright Music]

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2021.10.16 10:32 Austin-ncr I have data of the PMSM motor parameters such as magnetic strength, number of wire turns, armature length etc. So how can I calculate kt value from magnetic strength and other?

Is there any formula to calculate Kt value from magnetic field in Tesla, number of loop of wire in the magnetic field, length of magnetic field acting on wire and radius of motor armature?
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2021.10.16 10:32 kittysweetheart hi everyone! how is everyone today?

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2021.10.16 10:32 Kerbox2000 Card declined everywhere

My card was working fine yesterday and has worked well for over a year but now it is getting declined everywhere where I try to use it. I read some have had this problem already for a few days but I just got it today. If it's a general problem, what could possibly cause something like this to happen?
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2021.10.16 10:32 celemooon I saw Zak Bagans tonight!

I just wanted to tell someone lol
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2021.10.16 10:32 Nintendo113 Red Dragon Inn Ruling

I hope I'm being specific enough, but a group of friends and I were playing this evening and this scenario occurred.
Player 1 had a drinking event, causing player 2 to draw a drink that cost him some fortitude.
Player 3 wanted to use a sometimes card on player 1 that can be used when a player uses a card that directly causes another player to lose fortitude.
My question is, can it be applied here? Player 1 had a drinking event that caused the fortitude loss to player 2, not a specific action that targets a player to lose any fortitude. Can player 3 use his sometimes card in this instance?
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2021.10.16 10:32 Awkward_Film6846 Trying to remember if there was a kitten in Automata

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2021.10.16 10:32 kettnercreative How To Connect An iPhone To TV

Are you trying to connect your iPhone to your TV? We can help! Our professional A/V team is responsible for connecting thousands of phones to TVs each year. We’ve used our expertise to put together this list of simple steps to help you connect your iPhone to your television.
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